Post-pregnancy changes

Your breasts will feel soft to begin with because, during the first few days, your newborn only needs a little colostrum¹ (the nutritious milk that’s full of important protective antibodies). Once your milk comes in, after three or four days, your breasts will feel firmer² and may be hot and tender as they adjust to the new supply.

Unsurprisingly, you may feel sore, bruised or swollen around your vagina after giving birth.

If you have had stitches, healing time can vary depending on the type of stitches. Perineal stitches can take between two and four weeks to heal³, whereas caesarean recovery generally take around six weeks⁴.

There will also be some discharge called lochia⁵. It may start off blood-coloured, but becomes lighter and browner, slowly changing to pale pink over the following two to six weeks.

You may experience a weaker bladder too, so tone up your internal muscles with regular pelvic floor exercises.

With nine months of anticipation, the stresses of labour, the joy of meeting your baby, the realisation that you’re a mum, and major hormonal changes, the first few days after birth are hugely emotional.

So, you may well feel weepy during the week after giving birth – particularly if you are very tired, in pain or experiencing other problems.

However you feel, try to rest as much as possible to give your body and mind a chance to recover and get used to motherhood.