Giving your toddler the building blocks of language

Imitation game

Encouraging their communication skills

Language and communication are skills your child will start to develop from the moment they’re born. Hear what speech and language expert, Nicola Lathey, has to say on the importance of play and imagination, and the effect of the digital age on your child’s language development.

A child’s early years are a time of tremendous growth and opportunity, with early experiences having a lasting effect. Brain development allows a child to learn how to eat, crawl, walk and talk – all of the milestones you watch out for as your baby matures. If you consider how quickly a baby’s brain grows – it triples in size between birth and two years of age1 – it’s easy to see how significant early childhood is in the advancement of young minds.1

Toddlerhood – the critical years

Most people will consider their baby a toddler once they start ‘toddling’ – essentially when they start to walk – although, generally speaking, a toddler is a child between the ages of one to three. Toddler years, and beyond, are a time of great cognitive and social development. Between the ages of two to five, most children will have developed the skills to focus attention for extended periods, and remember specific information.2 It is during this period long-term memory begins to form, which is why most of us cannot remember our childhood prior to the age of two or three.2

As parents, we all long to witness the developmental ‘firsts’ from our child, many of which occur in early toddlerhood – think of the excitement when your child takes their first step or utters their first word – but these skills don’t evolve in isolation. They are part of a much bigger picture involving social interaction, play, observation, and listening.3 Parents can help to encourage children to develop these skills, and gain an interest in the world around them.

A ‘say what you see’ strategy puts your toddler’s thoughts into words as they experience the world around them.

Early language acquisition is instinctive and, for most children, happens quite naturally.4 But, how we as adults respond to a child’s attempts to communicate can leave an impression.4

A child’s brain develops partly through repeated experiences that structure the way they learn.5 This means a one off comment, or single action, may have little impact on learning, but, in the early years, when something is said or done repeatedly it is likely to stick. With repetition and encouragement you can help your child do more of what they might already be doing by repeating words and reinforcing their actions, making them feel proud about their attempts to communicate.

Speech therapists may suggest that a child needs to hear a word more than 500 times in its appropriate context before they will try to say it. Books with repetitive lines can also be a very powerful way of helping a child to talk.

Making traditional playtime educational

It is interesting to note that the development of language in children is closely related to play.4 Indeed, speech therapists have coined the phrase ‘language develops through play’. When children start to utter their first words, usually around one year old, it is also around the same time that symbolic play evolves.4 Symbolic play is the ability to use actions, objects or ideas to represent other actions, objects or ideas; you’ve probably witnessed your child using a banana as a telephone, or putting a bowl on their head as a hat.

Essentially, symbolic play encourages the use of imagination.

Research has shown that certain play materials in the home can help promote cognitive development and coordination.6 Toys are fun and can help your child’s imagination flourish from early on. Even the simplest toys can provide situations for learning and development. For example, playing with building blocks, one of the most basic of toys, has been shown to result in significant improvements in language over just a six-month period.1 Building a tower with blocks provides a multitude of speech and language opportunities – adjectives (high, flat), verbs (fall down, build), preposition (on-top), nouns (colours, numbers) are modelled by the adult for the child to understand and copy – as well as communication and social skills to encourage turn taking, sharing, listening and observing.3

Early-years development in the ‘digital age’

Today’s society is seeing a shift away from the use of traditional toys to aid learning and development, towards a more technological focus. Media exposure, in the form of television, tablets and computers, is becoming increasingly popular in pre-school and early-years learning, in addition to their popularity to keep children occupied at home. In today’s ‘digital’ society, many children know how to swipe the screen on a phone or tablet, long before they can do much else!

With the development of games and programmes designed for children of all ages, it is easy to assume that exposure to digital media is having a positive effect on our children, but in actual fact the opposite may be true. A 2011 study showed that increased duration of digital media exposure at six months old predicted lower cognitive and language development at age 14 months.7 Watching television, for example, in early childhood has been associated with language8 and attentional problems9 and with delayed cognitive development.10 Reducing the media exposure your child receives can limit the negative impact this can have on language, conversation and engagement and can instead make way for important parent-child interaction.More specifically, replacing the time spent in front of the TV with adult-led activities such as reading a bed time story and modelling language when playing with toys can be much more rewarding.7


There are lots of ways parents can create opportunities that encourage children to practise their language and communication skills. With children experiencing unparalleled physical, mental and emotional growth in their early years, establishing which activities promote development at this time, and which don’t, is incredibly important. Encouraging imaginative play away from the sedentary media exposure provides so much more than a few minutes or hours of ‘fun’. By playing and allowing your child time and space to explore and interact in their own way, you allow your child to develop and learn in a fun and safe environment.3

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9. Christakis et al. Early television exposure and subsequent attentional problems in children. Pediatrics 2004; 113; 708–13.

10 Zimmerman and Christakis. Children’s television viewing and cognitive outcomes. Arch Pediatr Adolesc Med 2005; 159: 619–625.

Last reviewed: 30th June 2016

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